Where did we go wrong?*Mono no aware?*

Your-self

To know you doesn't mean to give you what you want
To know me doesn't mean to deny me what I feel I own
My-self
For you
To understand my needs is not to know what created them
To understand your needs I need to listen to your silence
When we are together
For us
To love myself I need to listen to my silence

before my silence devours me 
To love you means to listen to your silence
after you are gone and become whole again
Until next time

I
when I don’t give you what keeps making you happy
You
then believe that I don’t know you
I 
oh how I wish you knew me but you can’t because I
keep becoming something new and you keep becoming
who you think you deserve to be

You and you alone

I can miraculously, just for you be the in full bloom cherry tree
on your iceberg and if you want to get a taste of me you ‘ve got to
first reach the top of your iceberg instead of trying to lift it up
while holding your breath

What about . . .
What makes you stronger is not always what you need To be stronger
doesn't mean to be in charge of yourself but to keep being compared
To be stronger than?